Television personality canary mugume has shocked netizens after issuing an emotional statement on his Twitter account staring how he has suffered over the years in his marriage with beautiful shasha Ferguson but he always keep quite. He emotionally said that sometimes he would be beaten to level of bleeding and that his close friends known this.I haven’t seen happiness over the years but I displayed a different image in Public.
Canary wrote on his X formally twitter that On being accused of being an abuser:
I normally choose silence, but there are narratives that must be corrected. So allow me say this; I am part of the unreported statistics of men who experience domestic violence from partners with uncontrolled anger issues. But because ‘we are men in a corporate world,’ we stay silent, show up every day. I restrained myself immensely despite all provocations and assaults. But society will, of course, believe the female gender. I have evidence of myself bleeding after being assaulted. All my closest friends, family know this.
On being accused of being an irresponsible father:
Despite having only seen my children ONCE in the last ten months, I have never stopped sending money monthly, a figure that wasn’t decided by me, but by my accuser. There is evidence of this: messages saying “thank you” and receipts of the transactions.
I have gone to court, fought, and been granted custody of my children, custody that authorities deliberately failed to enforce (that is a story for another day). Custody was granted on grounds of desertion: the mother had deserted them in a locked apartment with a maid while she was traveling overseas. Since January, I have been denied access to my children, despite numerous requests to seem and third parties intervening.
To men: speak up against violence from your wives when you still have the chance. I suffered in silence for too long. It didn’t help.
This is the last time I am addressing this issue, please give me space to heal.
Many people have made comments on his statements. But canaryband your wife, whatbhappened, you would always sing Jesus Jesus Christ and both portraying yourselves too holly and too close to Jesus. Now I know,marriage is not about religion or faith but about true love and maturity- Sandra akello stated.
Sorry bro. These daughters of Nebuchadnezzar will always want to influence how the world sees us but they will never win-kakwenza rukirabashaijja.
Brian wekesa -CanaryMugume your courage to finally speak up is something many men wish they had. People forget that pain doesn’t choose gender and the silence society forces onto men is exactly why stories like yours are always twisted against you. You’ve laid out your side with facts and a court process to back it up. That’s more accountability than most people ever show.
Anyone rushing to judge you without context should at least respect that you’ve consistently provided for your children and taken legal steps instead of engaging in public fights. Healing is your right take it. And if there’s one lesson here, it’s that men shouldn’t wait until they’re broken to talk about violence they face. Stay steady. You’ve said your truth, and that’s enough.
Elly Byarugaba -This is really painful, very Many Men especially in Coperate world have suffered alot in keeping their Name, dignity and Respect but this is one of the dangerous environment that is finishing our Men, Fathers which result to Many Mental Health disorders, finicial breakdown, and it equally affects the Children at all stages of their life.no one want to listen to a Boy child but my brother Canary don’t accept some one u met at an old age,love, trust her with everything to move with her for the rest of your drain your future, be strong ,remain focused. All will be well in Jesus Name.
As a man you must set the standards and if she can’t align herself to your standards, she doesn’t deserve your total commitment. A man’s commitment is very expensive, you don’t get it cheaply- Gilbert ahimbise
Your a daily drinking officer,your a known bi-sexual always attending gay parties stop being defensive.Sijui domestic violence no your a homosexual we know your partners .The desire to leave a lifestyle beyond next media pay is costing you life .big time joker- native ugandan
Abasajjja abanyankore tobanyoongera. When I gather some courage , I’ll also come out with reasons about why I left my baby’s father. Surprisingly he has a slightly similar name to “Mugume-Angela Leticia
Come and see me at office!!
Twogeremu .The association of men will fight and finish this war!! .I refuse any attempt that aims at making men be the beasts and women as the angels. Imagine a humble boy like you being called an abuser. You can’t even hurt a mosquito how can they say you abused them!!-Godfrey kutesa
Please get it from me CanaryMugume is the worst person I know on planet earth he thinks working on Tv he’s a big and powerful ,undermining people is your job. Change your attitude poor boy and learn to always pay your debts. If Nbs fired you what would be next- Native ugandan
I firmly believe that women’s emancipation was a significant error in human history.
Our ancestors were not devoid of compassion or intelligence when they treated women in the manner they did. Gradual changes were the appropriate approach, but the proponents of women’s rights rushed the process, resulting in the current state of affairs-Klaus Niyosenga
Violence has no gender. Responsibility has no gender. Pain has no audience.A man can bleed in silence, can parent in exile, can love through locked doors and still be judged by a world that only listens to one drum. Guard your peace. Let the courts and the truth do their work. May every man reading this learn that silence is not nobility when your name is being auctioned. Speak once, speak clearly, and return to building your destiny- Andrew Kyamagero
Dear Canary, it is unfortunate to learn of the traumatic experiences you have endured as a consequence of abuse. As you mentioned, “the society will of course believe the female gender.” With all due respect, I recommend that you address these issues outside the media channels. The Internet does not distinguish between right and wrong; some individuals will support you, while others may criticise you. Remember, the well-being of your children and family depends on your actions. It is advisable to seek reconciliation with your wife and to involve both your family and her family in these discussions. Given the sensitive nature of this matter, especially concerning child custody, be prepared for potential challenges, as courts often rule in favour of the mother. Furthermore, she may request a divorce, which could cause you additional distress. It is prudent to approach this situation with seriousness and to give it the necessary attention. Wishing you all the best-Hamuza Ssebunya
We are all toxic however much you explain yourself there are things u failed as a man and those u did your woman too these things of siding with one gender are so yesterday. The fact that u didn’t even hold yourself accountable for anything through out but you came-Ruhamire
This woman was still in communication with her ex partner and this guy was a known practitioner of witchcraft. This relationship had to go down – Justine Kasato
Problem is that people these days are forced by parents, relatives, religious leaders, etc to marry religions, faith,tribes,family background, financial power instead of getting a partner with character .this relationship of Canary and Sasha was never about love but modern day stupidity and its happening to many women and men these days – Nantume Sarah
I don’t understand why the moment a woman says she has been hurt or mistreated, people immediately attack the man without even listening to his side of the story. Many play the victim card, and society jumps too quickly to judgment.Men also get mistreated. Men also face domestic violence, but very few speak out most endure it silently. Society should allow men to express their feelings and share their experiences without being judged. Everyone deserves to be heard-shalom heavens
The problem is, when a man speaks out , other men will call him a coward but the fact is we a suffering and laws will always favor the female gender- deo
I stand with Sasha. I believe her story, you guys act holy in public but devil’s, with your partner(s). Many won’t actually believe Sasha because u are at the realm of your celebrity but time will stand for Sasha- jenipher
But also Sasha had a sister who kept connecting her back to the ex partner and this didn’t go well with Canary who also acted by going out with friends of Sasha. Shasha again had bitter fallout with her ex partner – Doreen kasiime
I prefer staying away from judging relationship issues, especially when only one side of the story is public. What we hear online is often incomplete, a lot happens behind closed doors. In many cases, the issues stem from infidelity, peers, greed, lack of focus, etc. I’ve seen situations where women assault men and change the narrative, and I’ve seen the same from men too. We should remember, both genders are capable of harm. Let facts and due process speak louder than assumptions- Alfred Afeku
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